I went through "product withdrawal" pretty hard the first six months. I looked longingly at my pretty handmade soaps and box of mint teas. But after making up my mind that I had to do the adult thing and just suck it up, it was pretty easy from there. Once you commit to it with all your being then finding substitutes is a breeze.
With one exception. Shampoos and conditioners.
Yes, there are dozens of shampoos and conditioners and styling products out there which are safe for us to use. But if you have naturally weak hair like I do then keeping your hair healthy while using the mostly chemical concoctions available out there.... ugh. Horror. My hair started to feel like straw after six months of them. I have wavy/curly Scottish hair and since using these SA-Free shampoos my hair is flat, frizzy, and so damaged my curl has completely disappeared.
Here's what stumps the hell out of me. How is it that companies can continue to get away with making products with main ingredients of: Cetyl Alcohol, Benzyl Alcohol, Stearyl Alcohol, Mineral Oil, and be able to say it "conditions" and "moisturizes" ?!! Alcohols dry and mineral oil only coats the hair; it is a protectant NOT a moisturizer. Akin to putting motor oil on your hair and claiming it moisturizes. This doesn't make any sense to me. You can look at even the supposedly top-of-the-line hair products and they use those same disgustingly cheap filler ingredients.
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This is an example of a First Class hair product.... which guaiers like myself can't use anymore. Read it and weep. I used to be In Love with this stuff. It's magic. Burt's Bee's Avocado Butter Pre-Shampoo Hair Treatment ingredients: Vegetable Glycerin, Olive Oil, Avocado Oil, Oat Flour, Lecithin, Sucrose Stearate, Sucrose Distearate, Magnesium Stearate, Citrus Rind Oil, Oat Oil, Chlorophyll, Tocopherol (Vitamin E), Nettle Leaf Powder, Rosemary Leaf Powder, Vegetable Oil, Fragrance.Even Alberta VO5 Hot Oil Treatments contain aloe vera and benzyl salicylate so that's one more awesome product line that we can't use.
Indulging in pure butters and oils seem to be the only way to heal this kind of damage. I'd like to offer a few suggestions in order to create your own salicylate-free hair conditioning treatment, which is what I have been forced to do. My hair is saved because of going Back To Basic Ingredients and doing it myself.
Using the CROWS(corn, rice, rye, oat, wheat, and soy) formula, here is a list of fantastic hair/skin care ingredients you can find at butter and oil supply stores (www.oilsbynature.com and www.fromnaturewithlove.com are examples). Make sure you purchase only the PURE versions of these ingredients.
Shea butter, cocoa butter, rice bran oil, wheat germ oil, vegetable glycerin, colloidal oatmeal, liquid lecithin.
Here's a sample recipe for a "hot oil treatment"- the first one I first started out with:
- 2 heaping tablespoons of shea butter. (warmed and liquefied in the microwave)
- 1 cup rice bran oil
- 1 tablespoon vegetable glycerin
- You can even add scent if you like! Synthetic, of course. Voila. Personalized hair care.
The first time I did this treatment I was SHOCKED at how well my hair lathered when I shampooed it out. I only had to wash it once and then I was done.
After a month of treating my hair gently with natural oils and butters it is definitely repairing itself. I've quit using my conditioner and am instead using a pure mixture of shea butter and a drop of rice bran oil( a small smear rubbed between my palms) every day to smooth my frizzies and keep my hair in good shape. My hair doesn't look oily or greasy and it certainly doesn't feel oily to the touch. My curls look better than ever. I just wish I had discovered this trick before my hair got trashed.
If anyone can give me some advice for shampoos I'd be truly thankful. I'm beating my head against the wall here, trying to find one that doesn't have those alcohol or mineral oil bases.
